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WRITING THE LAST CHAPTER OF THE YEAR

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Many times, we start life with powerful beginnings. Majority start their year with so many resolutions, aspirations and promises.  However, it's important for us to note that the last chapter of a story is usually turbulent. It's just like those action movies we watch. It's towards the end of the movie that we get to see the real action and thrills. I know you might whisper in your mind that difficulties evolved from the early part of this year. That not withstanding, it doesn't mean you should rule out the likelihood of a positive outcome as the year comes to an end. Don't join the crowd of those whinging and giving up all hope as the year 2020 wraps up. Don't let doubt, insecurity, fear, discouragement and other impediments write the concluding part of this year for you. In this year, I learnt the place of God over all things. I developed certain skills and equipped my mind.  There was time to bring out the creativity in me. Though, it seemed it slowed down a ...

BE A LAMPSTAND

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Being a lampstand requires that you be a witness. A witness is one who validates the claim of another. We are witnesses of a message, a realm and the possibilities in God. Acts 1:8 You become an efficient witness when you have received the holy spirit. The goal of the holy spirit is to empower you for your assignment. You are not yet a witness until your voice is heard. You are the candle that looses itself that light may shine. That I may decrease.... There's something the Holy Spirit has to do to you before you can be a witness. When you're on that hill, your glory is fading while His is increasing. That's the price of being a lampstand. The epicenter of your self worth must be willing to be handed over like a drink offering. When the Holy Spirit comes into your life it's not first to anoint you.... you have to die first. He has to make you. Your ego will be stung. This is the most difficult pruning. At this stage, he builds your faith. But all you have to do is surre...

BE RESILIENT

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Times will come when your strength gets sapped. Some situations will drastically drain your energy. Even the fiercest of rage will weaken you .  In the midst of all these, Maggy says: STAY RESILIENT AND UNBENDING!

CHARACTER - A desirable virtue

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Being a person of character all comes down to a person’s core values and their motivations for acting as they do.   Generally, people who are considered to have good character often have traits like integrity, honesty, courage, loyalty, accountability, self sacrifice and other important virtues that promote good behavior.   These character traits define who they are as people and highly influence the choices they make in their lives. Sometimes, the challenges we face do not need prayers, but good character. Having a good character helps a lot. It gives peace of mind. It makes you take great pride in knowing that you have a solid reputation.  People with character enjoy meaningful relationships based on openness, honesty, and mutual respect. When you have good moral character, people know that your behavior is reliable, your heart is in the right place, and your word is good as gold. It makes people endorse you for great opportunities. It increases leadership eff...

DIFFICULTY, An opportunity in disguise!

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A writer once told the story of one of his childhood experience. He used to love playing with butterflies.  One day, he watched a caterpillar shedding its cocoon. But it seemed to be having trouble and wasn’t making any progress.  So, in an effort to be helpful, he pulled out his pen knife and cut off the remaining pieces of the cocoon. But rather than emerging as a precious butterfly, the caterpillar quickly died. His grandfather explained to him that it needed to experience the struggle of moving through the cocoon to grow into a butterfly. And by preventing this from happening, he denied the caterpillar the chance to fly. A short lesson from this story is that turbulent times and periods of struggle in all areas of life are, in truth, similar opportunities to grow wings. “Mario Andretti, the race car driver once said, ‘If everything’s under control, you’re going too slow.’  Deep change is a purifier of sorts. Yes, it can tear down the very foundations on which you...

PRINCIPLES OF SPIRITUAL GROWTH

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Hey readers, happy new week to us. Do schedule some time to digest this. There are so many keys that can help us to grow to maturity. I'll be listing a few of them: 1. The first step to Christianity is an encounter with the person of our Lord Jesus Christ , beyond the fashions of religion; an encounter that brings transformation. You need to know God for yourself and have a personal relationship with Him. This is far beyond going to church or attending programs.  2. The proof that you're walking with God is that your life is conformed to His principles daily. It's not solely about understanding greek and hebrew words. There has to be evident changes in your life as you begin to learn the cultures of this kingdom. 3. The level of your alignment with the  Holy Spirit determines the extent to which our lives will be transformed. The scripture clearly explains that the flesh will always war against the spirit. So one has to be subdued for the other to prevail. You will need to ...

DEALING WITH THE FLESH

Hello esteemed readers! Hope your week has been fruitful? Do take out time to digest this.... Galatians 5:17  For the desires of the flesh are opposed to the [Holy] Spirit, and the [desires of the] Spirit are opposed to the flesh (godless human nature); for these are antagonistic to each other [continually withstanding and in conflict with each other], so that you are not free but are prevented from doing what you desire to do. Over time, I discovered that the flesh never gets satisfied. You remember the old slang - oliver twist asks for more? Guess what that's a clear picture of how our flesh operates. The scripture clearly explains that at all times, the flesh is always against the desires of the spirit. If you want to live out the purposes of God and fulfill your God given assignment, you will always have to make decisions that would stretch your capacity and build your spirit man. Haven't you noticed that it's when you decide to fast that you suddenly become so aware of...

FLASH BACK

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Happy new week to you esteemed readers! As we march into the final quarter of the year soon,I'll like us to take out time to reflect on how far we've gone compared to our written vision and goals.  In case you discovered that you've been complacent and scared of taking risks, you need to understand that you can't become successful by playing safe all the time...you need to stretch your horizons. Perhaps you've been caught in the middle of so many things...jack of all trades;master of none.  Let's quit chasing the wind and achieving nothing tangible in the long run.  You don't have to learn everything or participate in every activity. Learn to channel your energy to the right things. Sieve out the ones that are essential to your destiny/purpose. Remembering the shortness of life strips away all the distractions of life and reminds us of what’s most important.  "Visiting your mortality reminds you that your months are numbered.” Have you been maximising y...

INVEST IN YOURSELF 4

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SPIRITUAL GROWTH Hey there, it's a new week and we'll be wrapping up the series we've been on for a couple of days.  I would tag this as the most important area of life where you must be intentional about your growth. Reason being that growth in this area affects every other aspect of your life. As you walk closely with God, His presence will take away some characters from you by default.... those little comfortable lies would have to stop...those unhealthy desires would have to be forfeited. You'll begin to see the need to be serious with your DESTINY. Investing in your spiritual growth entails you spending time with God. Many of us wonder why we're not growing spiritually.  Just fast for a day, you're complaining! Intercede at night, you're lamenting!! Sow a seed, it's too difficult!!!  Spend time digging deep into His word,(only 25 mins you're back on social media chatting)!!!! Yet you want to see tremendous growth and tremendous grace to function...

INVEST IN YOURSELF 3

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Blessed day to bloom! We've been on a series tagged invest in yourself... and I'm pretty sure we've been learning a lot. Today we'll be looking at a vital aspect that we must never ignore... YOUR HEALTH MATTERS You do hear people say, it is health that is the real wealth, and not pieces of gold and silver. It's an actual fact. When you have good health, you know you can go out and achieve anything. You are unstoppable but with poor and terrible health, every day seems like the last day.  When you are healthy, you are efficient, sound mentally and productive.  Investing in your health entails eating good meals, having routines of exercise, consuming enough fruits and vegetables, etc.  When you invest in your health, you’ll surely reap the result. Good health is not something we can buy. However, it can be an extremely valuable savings account. Do not be too spiritual to the extent that you ignore the state of your health. You need this body to be in good state if you...

INVEST IN YOURSELF 2

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Yayyy, it's a new week that's filled with lot of promises for you. I prepared something for us to digest. Last week, we started a series tagged invest in yourself and today we'll be looking at a vital aspect that you must pay attention to... DEVELOP YOUR SKILLS We all know the proverb that says being the jack of all trades makes you the master of none. Well it's the truth and we need to pay attention to it. Successful people  never stop improving themselves. They are where they are because they improve constantly. If you don’t improve yourself, you might become stagnant and be left behind in a fast-moving world that is changing. The world is too impatient to bear your mediocrity. If you're into catering, what do you know/have that would make people want to patronise you and not go to other caterers. There's need for us to strive for mastery. This generation of young ones are always in a haste and fail to settle down and make conscious efforts towards excellence....

INVEST IN YOURSELF 1

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Hello there, trust your week has been splendid. Today we'll be starting up a new series and we will be learn important spheres of our lives where we need to invest our time and gain adequate knowledge. Today we would be looking at..... GAINING FINANCIAL INTELLIGENCE Wealth is having enough so that you do not have to worry about having enough. A lot of people so desire to be wealthy but only few are willing to pay the sacrifice of gaining knowledge and insight into the principles of wealth and financial freedom. Useful hints like maintaining the habit of saving, self control and delayed gratification, saying no to debt, etc are efficient tips that help one take charge of his or her finances.  And don’t forget that paying yourself first and living below your means can fund your future project and achieve your goals! Saving enough money to pay cash for what you want and will gives you the opportunity to quit a job, retire early, start the side hustle you love or have the financial fre...

ONE slack, MANY holes!

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Hello there...its a new week! I prepared something for you already. Join me on the table quickly...... Have you noticed that when a yam tuber gets infected with mosaic, it spreads to other areas in no time? Okay you might not really agree or understand this because you're not a farmer.  How about few bean weevils in a bag of beans? In few days they reproduce and hence the quality of the beans dwindles because they get eaten up by the weevils. Unseriousness in one area of our lives often spread to every other areas and then soon enough every aspect of our lives just goes haywire. When one finger gets stained with oil, it spreads to the other fingers almost immediately. When we get flippant at delicate and necessary issues of our lives, we do not see those negative effects immediately. At the onset, we leave off every warning signals and promptings from our conscious minds, up until it gets worse and affects very delicate issues in our lives. As you strive towards the fulfillment of ...

DIE AT YOUR POST

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A house church in the former soviet union received a copy of the gospel of Luke. Since it was illegal to possess this scripture, they tore it to pieces and distributed it among the body of believers. Their plan was to memorize the portion they had been given, then on the next Lords day they would meet and redistribute the sections. On Sunday, these believers arrived inconspicuously in small groups throughout the day so as not to arouse the suspicion of KGB informers. By dusk they were all safely inside, windows closed and doors locked. They began singing a hymn quietly but with deep emotion. Suddenly the door was pushed open and in walked two soldiers with loaded automatic weapons at the ready. One shouted, all right everybody line up against the wall. If you wish to renounce your commitment to Jesus, leave now. Two or three quickly left, then another. After few more seconds, two more. This is your last chance. Either turn against your faith or stay and suffer the consequences. Another...

MENTORS ARE LADDERS

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It's a new week! I'm sure you've set out already to take vital steps towards your dream. Here's some dose of wisdom you might want to digest. Today we'll be talking about mentorship. I do understand that there are so many school of thoughts as regards this topic but I'll be shedding some light on the relevant aspect. Mentorship is a relationship in which a more experienced or more knowledgeable person helps to guide a less experienced or less knowledgeable person. Your mentor may be older or younger than you, but bear this in mind that they must have a certain area of expertise. It is a learning and development partnership between someone with vast experience and someone who wants to learn. This is needed because interaction with an expert may also be necessary to gain proficiency in certain areas of life. Identifying strong mentors in your field is a good way to set yourself up for significant career transitions. This also applies to your spiritual growth.  Men...

THROW BACK THURSDAY

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Hurrayyyy! It's TBT (throw back Thursday)! It has almost become a tradition for us to go back memory lane on Thursdays, reminding ourselves of good old times and sharing nice pictures on social media. It's a good thing because they could help us get optimistic and get on our feet again. However, it's tragic that after such days some of us go back to worry and being pessimistic. Worry is a product of fear and unbelief. A writer (Olayade Kehinde) likened worry to a rocking chair which keeps you busy but leads you nowhere. Today I would like us to learn how to reminiscence on God's goodness and mercies to us. We must accept finite disappointment but never loose infinite hope- Martin Luther King Jr Rather than get pessimistic due to worries, we could focus more on what's working, having God's faithfulness in mind and grasp hope. This would yield results that would wow us. When things get hard and discouraging, you could do a throw back again, meditate on the scriptu...

COMPLACENCY

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A young farmer often had the challenge of getting a shade to rest after his daily farm work. He finally decided to plant a seed (oak) that would eventually germinate into a big tree so he could rest under it's shade subsequently. Few days later, he noticed a young paper birch shedding forth it's fresh leaves on his farm. He then aborted his previous plan of growing the oak tree. When this plant finally grew big, he began to enjoy it's shelter. However, the farmer knew that at the start of the summer, the plant would wither but he still did not do anything about his proposed oak tree. Summer came and his little shelter withered and he was back to square one. Now it was rather too late to for him to plant his oak because its season had gone... Complacency is a feeling of being satisfied with how things are and not wanting to make them better. Complacency is a very bad attitude especially when coupled with unawareness of some potential danger, defects and the likes. The story ...

GET AN ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER

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Hey there, how has the week been? Hope you've been consistent with your strivings and goals? Last time, we talked about tagging a purpose to those things we desire to learn and accomplish, all in a bid to ensure that we become consistent and not wavering. Today, I'll be sharing with us one more key that has worked for me in some aspects of my life.  Being accountable to someone would help you to be time conscious and do away with excuses. This person could be a dear friend who's concerned about your development and growth or it could be someone more matured than you are and has some valid results in that area.  We're emotional beings so it's normal to no longer feel like pushing those dreams further, but when there's clarity of purpose and you have someone watching your back, it would be difficult to throw aside those goals and dreams.  If you are accountable to someone for something that you do, you must show a level of responsibility and be ready to justify yo...

DEALING WITH INCONSISTENCY

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Sandra woke up to a bright morning sun so enthusiastic about the new skill she was going to learn; being a professional pianist would be cool, she thought. After having a quick shower, she dashed out of the house to the studio. Mark, her tutor was already waiting for her at the studio.... Weeks went by and she was finally done with the tutorials. All she needed to to now, was to keep practising and learning from some online music websites.  It's being three months now, and she hasn't really gotten far with her target. It's more like she has lost the motivation she once had, being unable to meet up with her daily targets and now she's beginning to think she made a mistake by choosing to get skillful in playing the piano. Does this in anyway sound farmilar with what you maybe struggling with right now? Is your behavior inconsistent with your goals? If so, it could be keeping you from living the life you say you wish to live. Exploring the inconsistencies between what you ...

DILIGENCE

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 Hi there, it's a new day to blossom... Do schedule some time to meditate on this.  Many written goals never come to realisation because most people have not applied a catalyst called diligence. The first scripture that ever comes to mind when the subject diligence comes to play is Proverbs 22:29.  It says 'Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean  men." Diligence is steady application, and careful work involving long-term effort. The great and positive effects of the application of diligence cuts across all spheres of life.  You want to be successful in business, you wish to be a first class student, do you want to fulfill destiny, do you desire to operate in a high level of the anointing and grace of God? If your answer to any of these questions is yes, then YOU MUST BE DILIGENT. Diligence births excellence and mastery. Come to think of it, what do you think would make Kings and noble men come in se...